You don't get it

you know, i hate this sentence
if you don't get it,
i will explain till u do.
so do the same for me.
telling me i don't get it also tells me
"you don't know me so fuck off and shut up."
yes i do read a lot into it..
that is precisely why i'm the girl..
they say Virgos are perfectionist, that's probably why they want things their way
im no different..
if that's a problem, will you accept it or ask me to change?
if your answer is for me to change
..then you?
i do think i know you well enough..but i also know why the quarrels start..
I'm alot like you actually, I like to win, I like to out talk people, I don't like to say sorry and i am not as forgiving..thats not all..Im sacarstic and so are you..
I do think its more of the similarities that clashes and not the differences. If i was different, i would jus listen and ignore..but im not..i want a say too..
but its not characters that brought us together, so im not about to let it bring us apart..
we'll work it out..I know we will..right?

only one word: DISAPPOINTED

its good to be confident but not overconfident
what happened to being open to advice?
to place it bluntly, the car isn't yours.
if it was not a willing deed..don't volunteer
its not a driver i need
its someone who CARES enough to send me home safely
cos my life means a thing and so does yours
to place it bluntly again
my life was given to me by my parents, not you
the very least i deserve is to feel safe in your hands
unless you feel there is no need to
then im more than willing to travel home myself.
it was for you that i travel to your coonvenient
but now its such a chore to bring me back home safely
then y did i have to go to such extend to have myself being RUSHED home so many times?
im disappointed

有你在真好

fragile

As fragile as it looks

i will cherish 

i will protect

as long as you still want me to

love,

me

I should not try to change you

They say that one should never try to change their other half.

I do agree. After all, isn't the initial man the one I fell for?

As they go on together, we find that change is all around

Do we, then, change?

I believe that mutual understanding is very important

if we are to plan the rest of our lives together,

we need to work out what we need to change together.

Not what one party alone need to change.

If moving ahead and making decisions is done by only one party, how then should the other support?

blindly?

I don't really think I would be helping if i support him blindly.

I cannot foresee the future, but i can tell the difference between a rational and irrational decision.

Wanting to bear everything does not make a boy a man.

Learning to listen and share is.

he is everything good. he cares, shares, listens, loves, respects, is faithful etc.

but the opposite shows when the foul mood arises.

nothing goes in and debates starts

a hole burns in this relationship and we need to spend time to mend it

I can only pray that we grow stronger and not weaker from these.

What is mutual understanding in a relationship?

Love is a strong attraction between the man and the woman. Usually when they have love they want to create a family. At first they don’t even think if they are compatible or not. They love each other. And then it occurs that there is a problem, the problem of mutual understanding of two opposite sexes, usually it happens when the family is created.

All classifications are to define if two types of personality are compatible with each other or not.
However if you have got to know what kind of a person you need, you should not find such a person and get married with him/her at once. Because the key rule of personal psychological compatibility sounds like this: no rules are present here.
Basically it is possible to tell that all types can be both perfectly compatible, and absolutely unaccommodating. It also depends, except results of testing, on many other things. It is said that compatibility is when people are similar. A woman loves to communicate and her partner likes the same, he would like to have a rest on the nature and she doesn’t mind too, they both like to sit in the silence, enjoying each other with no words. They also like identical dishes, kinds of music, and their views on life are identical. Will it be forever? At first, yes. But then they will have problems in relations for sure.

There is another type of “compatibility”. A man says – a woman listens up to him, a woman solves – a man performs, one orders – another submits. It is good only from the first sight. Quarrels can begin because they have different views on life.

If you have grown fond of someone and suddenly you find out that your second half is not compatible as to the type of personality you need, cheer up! All types of the personality can get on, if they know features of each other and secondly, if they consider right what is positive in the partner, and what is negative, and thirdly – the most important thing! – If there is a mutual desire to get on, otherwise, readiness for the certain compromise, then everything will be just fine. It is important to accept another such as he/ she is, and not to hope that in marriage you will manage to alter her/him. It will not be possible. If something obstinately and actively is not pleasant to you – do not marry better at all.
And in general we can add that no matter what type of personality you have and no matter if you are compatible according to it, if you don’t love and respect each other, you will not have a strong and happy family. And on the contrary – if you are absolutely incompatible according to a science, but really both wish to be together – you will be able to do it. The only thing is you have to learn how to live together, but not to alter the inside world of each other

money doesn't worth a thing

well, at least i wish it doesn't where i am now

there are places where you give a man a coin, they'll toss it back at you

cos it don't mean a thing to them.

too bad in our so high and rich society, money makes the world go round

you even have to buy holidays, getaways to have some fun and relaxation

this world is so fucked up that the end should come

the generation after and after won't be able to learn appreciation and value of $0

the house they stay in would be a $$ to them but not a home

the partner they have would be a pawn to them but not a supporter

the parents they have would be a liability to them but not a lifelong teacher

friends would be friends on the surface and foe from the core

i know how happy one can be when money buys them their fav toy, fav bag or fav holiday

i guess a good memory can be obtained but a short one it will be.

i want something that i can maintain

a hand to hold for the rest of my life

a friend or 2 for the down of my times

i hate the impact of money and i hate the impact it has on me and the people around me

wishes and dreams do come true

i had a great sunday even if it was tiring

my love is smiling again^^

n i wanna keep it that way

i found this picture online and i fell for the beauty

wishing for a tearless Sunday

An upsetting Friday

followed by a disastrous Saturday

how i really wish Sunday would be good to me.

 it saddens me most when my efforts are thrown out like dung.
When a bad thing befalls, all the small good things don't matter.
cos all u see is that big fat dark cloud hovering above you.

To my Dearest^^

out of comfort zone

No matter how beautiful and comfortable it is in here,

there is something more mesmerizing just outside.

Time to take a chance,

Time to take a peek outside the bigger world.

To my Valentine

no money flaunting was needed to make me happy

just your hand holding mine

you have given me something special

it is priceless yet most precious

thank you for loving me

for i will treasure all these for as long as we are together

i love you

Can tears travel faster than the reason behind them?

i believe not..I just cannot put into words whats making me feel down.

being reasonable and fair is not a trait that i possess every day

right now, i'm easily filled with jealousy and sensitivity.

i choose to not portray this side because it is not even acceptable by me

I don't wish for it to be shown nor judged

It's not something someone did

it's what my mind did to that something someone did.

it processed it all wrong

it's like i've ran out of positive juices today.

i should rest on it

will you be my Valentine?

i've got so many ways to tell you that..

ijustneedtopouritout

pour what?

for the past few months, 

i've been feeling the bliss

the bliss to be in love with my man

for this happiness

thank you^^